feat(tabs): cross-device tab sync via conversation lifecycle

Consume the conversation lifecycle handoff ([email protected], [email protected]).
Re-pinned file: deps + re-mirrored .dispatch/*.reference.md.

- fetchOpenConversations() on connect: GET /conversations?status=active,idle
  restores the tab bar across devices (merges with localStorage — opens new
  tabs, removes closed ones, updates titles from backend)
- conversation.statusChanged WS handler: closed → removeTabLocally (no
  re-POST); active → open tab + spinner; idle → update status map
- conversation.compacted WS handler: dispose stale store + cache, reload
  history from server
- TabBar shows a spinner on active conversations (statusFor prop)
- closeTab refactored to use removeTabLocally (extracted cleanup)
- conformance guards + WS adapter tests cover all 3 new WsServerMessage types

686 tests green.

1 files changed, 4 insertions, 0 deletions

diff --git a/src/core/wire/conformance.ts b/src/core/wire/conformance.ts
index 05a15aa..07808fc 100644
--- a/src/core/wire/conformance.ts
+++ b/src/core/wire/conformance.ts
@@ -83,6 +83,10 @@ export function assertWsServerMessageExhaustive(msg: WsServerMessage): string {
 			return "chat.error";
 		case "conversation.open":
 			return "conversation.open";
+		case "conversation.statusChanged":
+			return "conversation.statusChanged";
+		case "conversation.compacted":
+			return "conversation.compacted";
 		default:
 			return msg satisfies never;
 	}